Approaching Women You Like Without Making It Obvious

One of the most common questions that men wanting to attract women ask me is:

 

"How can I approach women without making it obvious that I like her?"

 

Unfortunately, there are two rather big challenges a man has to overcome if he truly wants to approach a woman that he likes without her knowing that he likes her.

 

1. When you approach a woman no matter what your real reason is for approaching her she is already assuming that you like her.

 

2. On the rare occasions that she doesn't assume you like her it's either because she thinks you like other men and/or you are nowhere close to her type.

 

In other words, you want a woman to think that you like her when you first approach her; otherwise you are making it more difficult for yourself to actually attract her after that initial approach "under the radar".

 

While it is a given that a woman is going to assume you like her when you initially approach her, the quicker you can begin to make her wonder if she wrong about her initial assumption.

 

The easier it will be for you to attract her to you after that.

 

Of course, this is assuming that after you have approached her and taken a few moments to get to know her; you still do like her and want to do all the things you imagined yourself doing with her before you even approached her.

 

Then again even if you don't like her anymore after those initial moments you can still use this time together with her as a learning experience.

 

That way when it is time for you to approach another woman, it just might be even easier that this approach with the woman you imagine her to be.

 

by Teddy Shabba