Whether you want to believe it or not you are in control of the type of women you attract and the kind of relationships you can expect to have with women as well.
Men who expect and are unwilling to accept anything less than control in their relationships, not only are able to attract a whole lot of women their relationships tend to be more fulfilling as well at least from their own point of view.
Of course, with that said there are a lot and I mean a whole lot of women you simply will not be able to attract as long as you have a controlling mindset.
In fact, sometimes you might even discover that a woman who was initially attracted to you after a certain amount of time may no longer be attracted to you once she begins to realize just how controlling you really are.
However, when you are in control women who aren't attracted to you don't matter because you are all about what you want and maintaining it or doing what you must in order to get it.
When you are in control, you understand that a woman who isn't giving you what you want isn't going to give it to you simply because you choose to relinquish control to her.
Its been said over and over again (especially by me) that a woman who isn't giving you what you want has no motivation or desire to change as long as she is in control or is getting what she wants.
In a perfect world, it really would be as easy as you give her what she wants and she will give you what you want.
Yet, when you find your relationship with a woman is now in the real world you have a decision to make.
Let her control the relationship or you can maintain control even if that means having to find someone else.
by Teddy Shabba
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