Attraction! Is the woman attracted to you? Does she feel that all powerful emotional ATTRACTION for you? If she does then she's crazy about you and will do ANYTHING with you... just to be in your presence and have your attention.
Once you get that right... that she's attracted to you.... then all you need to do is say "come here". And she will go anywhere with you. It does not need to be the expensive nights out to dinner all the time. You see, when this attraction happens she will be happy to go shopping with you. And I mean the grocery store. Anywhere you want she will go, because she wants to be with you.
What is a date? What do you think the purpose of a date is? The word dating simply means "romantic interactions". And to a guy it means "romantic interactions with women". If you want to have more romantic interactions with women then do just that and it does NOT mean you need to "take women out on dates", in order to do it.
No "dates" required.
So kick up your romantic interactions with women, but it does NOT mean "take women out to dinner twice as much as you used to".
Is this making sense?
Think about this... what do couples do a year after they meet and get together?
They stay home, a lot. They go shopping together. They start to behave like they did before they met.
This "Going out to dinner" ritual really is an amazing concept. It's incredible how powerful it is... and how men really believe that they need to do it (or similar things) in order to get a woman's attention in a romantic way. It's truly not necessary.
Do you want a woman to think of you as a "lover"? Then BE ONE.
Do you want a woman to think of you as a provider? Then BE ONE.
When you know how to trigger ATTRACTION in a woman, all the "usual" rules go away. Everything changes.
This could be a problem... if you take her out to dinner 9 times, call her twice a day, and in general just chase her around, then it would be EXPECTED that you will continue with this pattern.
If you want to be a LOVER to a woman - DO IT.
ATTRACTION has no timeline and it happens fast, if you know how to trigger it...
Do YOU know how to trigger it? When you do she won't care what you do together - as long as she's with you.
by Alex Hanson
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