Meeting women online is not as hard as it looks. Sites such as Myspace have some competition, but I would say that more than 60% of the guys on there don't have a clue on how to attract and seduce women.
Believe it or not, online dating is just like marketing. Here, you're the product and you have to make your brand interesting and appealing to the women you want to date. When you make the initial contact, don't screw up your first impression. If you do, you'll come across as another loser who is just trying to get laid.
Here's what you can do.
Step 1 - Use a creative subject line in your message in order to get her attention.
Attract her with a with a catchy subject line.
For example: "You Seem Interesting...But"
This type of subject line creates a little bit of mystery for her. She'll say, "Wait a minute. Did this guy find something wrong with me?" As a result, she will read your message. Make sure you avoid the "Hey sexy, how are ya?" subject lines. These will be deleted immediately.
Step 2 - Get her to respond to your message.
(This is hard because she probably gets about 30-50 messages per day).
This is one of many ways to do it. Your message is got to have these 3 ingredients.
A.) Send her a message that's funny and unique. Seduce her with your wit and humor. When I say this, I don't mean send her a joke or a link to a funny picture.
B.) Mention something very specific about her.
Yes, this means you have to read her profile! But most important of all, make a comment about her hair, clothes or jewelry in her pics. You will score some brownie points for doing so. Just make sure you know what the heck you're talking about. Don't tell her you like the way her highlights look when she doesn't have any!!!
Please keep in mind that most women like guys who can pay attention to the small details. That's what women do. They look at the small details men usually miss. Case in point, I bought a real cool Fendi watch the other day. Most of you guys probably haven't heard of Fendi, but they make really expensive purses for women. Every time I flash it around, women are drawn to it because the Fendi logo is some what visible from far away. They usually ask me how much did it cost. I tell them that my ex-girlfriend bought it for me. Then I ask them if their boyfriend gives them Fendi bags as gifts. The usually respond with "No way, he's cheap" or "I don't have a boyfriend" BINGO!
C.) End your message with a question.
I cannot emphasize this enough. You must end your message with a question!!! Just don't ask her, "Can I take you to a movie?"
Pay attention guys, women love to talk about themselves. That's one of their favorite subjects. That's why your message has to end with a question pertaining to your prospect. Ask them a question about their hobby or job. Try to play dumb and they will talk to you.
They will feel like they're being helpful. If they like photography, ask them what's the best camera to buy for someone who wants to take landscape pictures. Trust me, they will respond to your email.
Once you find out more information about her, ask her if she could help you out with making a purchase (whether it's a camera or another item). Let her know that she's the pro and that you don't want to get screwed. Since she's the expert, chances are that she will tag along to help you out. I've found out that this is one of the simplest way to get together with a woman
you met online.
Say something like, "hey, you know that camera shop by the beach? I'm going to go tomorrow afternoon. Do you want to help me pick something out? I think if you tag along I won't get screwed."
Guess what pal? You're about to meet a hottie without even asking her out on a date!
by Sir Bangs-A-Lot
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