Are You Sick Of Hearing "Let's Just Be Friends" from Women?

If women are still consistently "LJBF (Let's Just Be Friends)"ing you, chances are, you're cut off from your masculine sexual power.

 

When the women talk about "sexual potency," they're referring to the degree to which a man is connected with himself sexually. This is the uncaged, primal animal in you, the part of you that can "take" or "ravish" or "dominate" a woman, when it's appropriate.

 

If you feel shy, ashamed, or guilty about bringing this flavor of sexual energy with a woman you're attracted to, chances are there's a limiting belief that's in the way of juicy, fiery turn-on with women that has them want you as more than a friend.

 

Why is this such a primal "attraction switch" for women?

 

This type of sexual power is very similar to, and very connected with, your "killer instinct".

 

Let's think about this for a second. As men, our biological, internal wiring is designed to have us be able to switch from a role of provider to a mode of killer at any time where we can fight for our survival or the survival of those we care about.

 

Imagine if you were instantly transported from where you are right now, in this moment, into a situation where it was kill or be killed / save someone that you cared for / take a life risk for a purpose you believed in.

 

Now, if you can't access your "killer instinct", that part of you that could protect your family (or your woman) if necessary....then it can't be felt by her. And, as a result, she can't fully trust you, and will not /cannot feel attraction for you. And women can instantly FEEL whether you have access to that masculine, sexual power or not. And in response, their body either turns ON (you are a potential lover), or OFF (you get LJBF'd) - INSTANTLY.

 

You may even notice that you HIDE your sexual potency whenever you approach a woman. A common sign of this is if you are unconsciously clenching your balls. It's like you're castrating yourself and women can feel something missing.

 

So, how do you resolve this? The first step is to become aware of it. Notice whether it's edgy when you imagine really ravishing a woman. And notice if any parts of your body are tensing up. Practice breathing into the areas that get tense...see if you can allow them to relax. Notice any thoughts or beliefs-- feelings of shame or guilt about sex or attraction to women. Don't try to push them away; just notice them.

 

They may go away on their own as you bring Presence to these areas. If they don't, other practices that may help you to access your masculine power are martial arts or intense yoga, The Mankind Project. And when you can re-access this part of yourself....your sex life, my friend, will be off the hook!

 

So women want to be able to feel the uncaged, primal animal in you AND keep in mind, this is part of a balance. Just because you are tapping into your primal masculine essence doesn't mean you'll be picking ticks out of her hair and eating them before clubbing her with a big stick and dragging her off.

 

When you do this right she will simply have a subtle feeling about you that has her feel that if she were in trouble, you would be more than equipped to (beat the crap out of a mountain lion/build her a fire/keep her safe from an avalanche) have everything handled.

 

"Ahhhhhh," she thinks... "I can actually relax around this guy!"

 

If you don't have access to it, you will continually struggle with getting LJBF'd.

 

by Bryan Bayer