1. Love yourself. If you can't love yourself there is no way anyone is going to love you. Don't do the stupid things some women do thinking that they will get men to fall in love with them -- like doing things that diminish your value. Don't go to bed with men you hardly know or love. When it comes down to it, most men will not date you for long if you let them go to bed with you on their first night out with you.
2. Look your best at all times. When I say look your best, it is because men are visual by nature and will only go after women they find to be physically attractive. So what do you do? Simple. Make sure your hair and nails are done. Put on clothes that showcase your best physical attributes. Enroll in a gym if that is what it will take to get you to admire what you see in the mirror.
3. Be the best you can be. No man wants a looser for a girlfriend or wife. Most want women who constantly strive to improve themselves have qualities that most men look for when they want to settle down. So set your goals in life and go after them.
4. Be original. Don't do what every other girl is doing just because you want to fit in. If you like to do some carpentry or construction do it. Do not waste your time thinking about what other women will think of it. Men are attracted to women who do not follow the crowd.
5. Demonstrate that you are an independent thinker. Don't rely on a man to make decisions that will affect your life. Sure two heads are better than one, but make sure that your head is one of the two making decisions that will impact your life. From time to time take charge of making decisions about the places you would like to go for a date. Don't always let the man plan things out for you. Men want to know that if things get serious that you will be able to jump in and make fun things happen.
6. Be pleasant and smile more often. Sure you are a serious business woman when you are negotiating a deal for your company, but when you are not dealing, relax and let your hair down. Let those around you know that you like to have fun, and when you put a smile on your face your inner beauty shines.
7. Engage him in deep conversations about life. If you do not know how to ask questions that draw out the things he is passionate about, then simply ask him open-ended questions that will draw out responses that light up his eyes. Conversation is what lets him know who you are and how compatible both of you are.
The more you value yourself, the more men find you attractive. The more original you are, the more men find you interesting. And the more engaging you are in your conversation with men, the greater your chances of connecting with them emotionally. And when you are able to connect with men emotionally, you would have mastered a skill that will get a ton of men to chase after you.
by Steve Ubah
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