Think about this for a moment...
Lets say we put 100 guys in a bar and there is just one beautiful woman
sitting alone, and you say to all of the 100 guys, "Hey men, which one of you can walk over to that woman and do something to make her feel a SEXUAL ATTRACTION for you?"
I think you would be LUCKY if one of them will say that he can do it. Let me explain that for most guys, the idea of walking up to a girl they don't even know and doing something that will and does TRIGGER an attraction is completely outside of their universe.
This is one of the reasons why men do things like buying a woman drinks or asking women to dance.
Something you must understand when it comes to the AMERICAN WOMAN & ATTRACTION or any women on the planet for that matter & ATTRACTION is that women do NOT feel ATTRACTION for WHIMPS.
ATTRACTION isn't a CHOICE.
It really is not logical, at least not on the surface.
So now you need to start to "get it" and then everything changes. Your entire perspective changes once you "get it" and your results will change instantly, too.
Here is one mighty BIG dating tip for you.
MESS WITH WOMEN. Mess with her. Yup, "mess with" them.
Tease her.
Be difficult with her.
Why?
Because it INSTANTLY communicates that YOU could care less what she thinks of you, you are a fun person, you are unpredictable, you're somewhat of a "wild card" for her, etc.
GET IT?
Maybe you're thinking to yourself that this is NOT the way to get a woman
to tell me if she's interested. Why would a woman feel attracted to me if I mess with her instead of being nice"? Good question.
STOP following your "be nice and kiss her pretty little a**" instincts when you first meet a woman, and instead practice MESSING WITH HER.
Make fun of something.
Go to hand her something, and then pull it away at the last second. Shake your head with a little smirk on your face and tell her that she's screwing up her chances with you.
Be Cocky & Funny.
Now, to see if she is interested! That's right. Right now you're looking for the sign. The signal.
Here is the simple formula...
1. You just engaged her.
2. She engages you back.
That's it. Yup. That's the simple formula.
If she engages you back, she's interested. IT'S ON!
Let's say you walk into a restaurant and the hostess asks how many are in your party and you say something like, "There are three of us. I guess there will be four if you join us. If she laughs at your joke, then IT'S ON!
Or let's say you're at the bar, and the woman next to you accidentally bumps your arm. You turn and say "Hey there, watch it, Okay? Keep some space here; I need at least a foot of room." And you have said that in a serious tone, but with a small smirk on your face and she starts playing along by smiling and moving away from you and then back again. All playfully, then IT'S ON!
In other words...
Stop CARING whether or not any particular woman
is interested in you. And stop looking around for signals from women that they are "interested" in you.
Instead, START TRIGGERING her interest and then START WATCHING to see if the women ENGAGE. If they do, then assume that IT'S ON!
As long as you use how she's responding to what YOU do as your best gauge you'll have a MUCH easier time spotting the "she's interested" clues.
Don't forget that because NOW, YOU ARE THE ONE CAUSING THEM.
by Alex Hanson
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