How To Skyrocket a Woman's Attraction After You Have Offended Her

The ice stare. That's what you get when you go out with a woman
who has no sense of humor. Or maybe she's in a bad mood. Maybe it has something to do with her hormones. It doesn't matter. The damage is done.

 

Or... you say something you think is going to be funny... but comes out lame. Oops. The damage is done.

 

Actually the damage is rather harmless. That is the most important lesson you can learn. Once you understand this, it's very easy to recover for embarrassing situations. This article will show you how to diffuse such situations.

 

The first technique I use is this: I tell her "It was a joke". But I say it with the most serious look on my face. I mean ice cold serious. Try it in the mirror. It's actually pretty funny, because what you are saying and what you look like are total contradictions. This takes the pressure out of the situation and allows you to continue on as if nothing happen.

 

The second trick you can use is showing her that you aren't losing your cool. Just flash her a sly smile that communicates to her you think she's cute when she's mad. If you do this right, and she isn't some psycho, she will lighten up instantly.

 

If you aren't good at facial expressions, try this one. Just laugh. When she gets offended, just start laughing. Tell her she's adorable and needs to loosen up a bit. If you keep it cool, she'll play cool, too.

 

The point of all these techniques is simple: it shows you weren't serious, but you still aren't losing you confidence or cool. But only make sure to use them when she is truly offended by something you said and not just "mock offended" and testing you.

 

Remember: women like to act like they're offended when you tease them. It's their way of putting up a little resistance so as not to seem easy to control. But secretly, most women enjoy being teased as long as you can make them laugh while doing it. They know you are flirting with them, and if you can keep them smiling and laughing they will start feeling attracted to you.

 

But if you're a wuss, and buckle at the first sign of protest, you have committed an attraction buzz kill.

 

In conclusion, if you're teasing a woman
, or joking around with her, you'll likely get one of two responses a "I can't believe you said that but I'm smiling" response, or a response where she's truly offended. If it's the first one, keep it up buddy. You're doing just fine. If it's the second one, use the dead pan joking technique, the "you're cute when your mad" smile or simply laugh and confidently tell her she's adorable and just needs to loosen up.

 

If she's cool, she'll understand. If she's not, you probably wouldn't want to be around someone like that anyway.

 

by Kurt Dight