Men - How To Play Hard To Get In A Way Women Find Irresistible?

Women play hard to get all the time. Can men do it and get away with it? Or will they be thought of as a player and be disregarded?

 

I say it doesn't matter. Let me qualify that. Don't worry what a woman
thinks about you. Once you understand what causes attraction to take place in a woman, you will learn how to make it happen automatically... whether she thinks you're playing hard to get or not.

 

Worrying what a woman
thinks about you is a sure ticket to remain a wuss for the rest of your life. That's a big turn off! Do you think James Bond cares what a woman thinks about him?

 

Let's inch closer to the truth. You really need to be asking, "how do I communicate to a woman
I don't care what she thinks in such a way that makes her find me attractive?" I'm glad you asked. Here's how you do that.

 

First, it starts with scarcity. You know those collectors edition plates that grandma has hanging on the wall. Chances are they aren't worth a cent. "But they are a collectors item!" she says. In fact, that's the only reason she bought them.

 

So if you're "playing hard to get" with a woman
, it can be made to work by using scarcity. You must learn your limits of scarcity with women, and know when to follow your rules and when to break them. Typically, I recommend only seeing a woman you just met once a week (although there are exceptions). Call her twice a week at most.

 

This is incredibly hard to do if you're new to the game of attraction. The problem for beginners is they often only have one or two women they are seeing. This is a death for attraction. You will find it impossible to play hard to get if you are only have one woman
in your life at a time.

 

If this is the case, you really need to think a long these lines then: How can I get more women to "play hard to get to?" There are a lot of ways you can do this, and that is beyond the scope of this article. I urge you to find out what works for you. Just remember this one thing:

 

Learn how to communicate with women in a way the shows them you are completely comfortable in your own reality. This is one of the biggest attraction triggers I have ever found. When you truly learn how to do this, it doesn't matter what you say to women when you approach them.

 

Then you won't have to "play" hard to get at all. You will become hard to get. Think about it.

 

by Kurt Dight