Well, let's face it...there are millions of singles looking for love just like us! We need to find a way to stand out and be noticed.
"Spot check" at least 10 profiles. Note which ones caught your attention and why. Also note which ones turned you off, and why.
One of the main ways of getting your profile to stand out is to have a very flattering photo. You might say "everyone knows that!" If everyone knows that, then why do some people put pictures of their pets only?...Or...pictures of their car and motorcycle...only? Can you tell me why they will put pictures of their grandchildren at the park, but no picture of them? Then they have the nerve to complain about the lack of responses or the quality of the responses they receive!
Once you've picked out the photo that is flattering, now you want to pick a User Name. This will go at the top of your profile page. Pick something unusual, maybe cute, or a little sexy. Stay away from any user name that flashes "sex!!!" not "sexy". If you use a crude, vulgar user name? Those are the types of emails you can look forward to getting. Hey, maybe that's what you're looking for. If so, you can skip this paragraph...
Invest a little time in completing the profile questions. Some people answer all of the questions with "I'll tell you later". That turns me off. If they are truly trying to meet me, why won't they take a few minutes and introduce themselves to me? That is basically what the profile page is; an introduction. To make your online profile stand out, the introduction is extremely important.
When setting up your profile, keep these tips in mind. You will have more emails than you can handle! Good luck...
by Vivian Johnson
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