Thursday, 20 March 2008

Dating Tips on Your First Date

Many men tend to want to impress a girl on the first date and forget the dating techniques they need in order to succeed. Here are a few dating tips to serve as reminders to he forgetful men.

 

Good Communication Skills

 

Good communication skills during the first date cannot be over-emphasized even though you are probably very interested in finding out more about her. Picture yourself walking along the streets with a girl who probably likes you and she keeps asking you about your past relationships, your social lifestyle and the people whom you usually mix around with. Her questions are never ending and she is always anxious for your answer. Does that sound like an interrogation? You bet it is. Therefore, you should try to phrase your questions in a non-probing manner and not bombard her with questions like a criminal. Ask open ended questions. This encourages further communication and rapport building.

 

Do Something Memorable

 

Your girl is beautiful and she just went out with two guys this week. You did your research and they both brought her to dinner. What makes you stand out differently from your love rivals? Generally, do additional research before the date and know what she likes exactly. You can bring her to the National Museum if her close friends tell you that her favorite subject in school is history. Instead of bringing her to dinner, a good place to go might be her favorite ice-cream shop. Furthermore, you buy her favorite peach flavored ice-cream with her favorite chocolate chip toppings. Now you tell me, who will win her heart over?

 

Never End the Date Late

 

Many men think that quantity equates quality in terms of dating. This is not entirely true. Dragging a date longer does not mean that you stand a higher chance with that particular girl. Instead, you might firstly give her the wrong impression that you like to stay out late. In addition, you might make her feel irritated as she feels that it is time for her to go home. Always offer to send her home but should she reject you, do not persist.

 

by Janice Hilton Freeman

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