Attract More Women with These 4 Easy Tricks

How do you improve your dating life? How do you cause women to become so attracted to you that they just can't imagine not wanting to be intimate with you? There are a lot of little things you can do to accomplish these goals. I will discuss some of the very best tactics to shortcut your success to dating beautiful women.

 

Know Yourself. What are you good at? Think about what comes naturally to you and what you are confident in. Now come up with five scenarios that compliment these situations where women are at, or where you can take women to.

 

Now think about the areas you have trouble with, regarding women. You can either try to avoid them, solve them on your own or go to someone who has already figured them out. I prefer the latter; it's like getting a combination to a safe. Ask your friends who are good at dealing with women in the areas you need improvement on. Some people just have a knack for meeting women and knowing what to say to them. These personality traits are easier "caught" than taught. Find people you can hang around with who have what you want. Just by simply being with them you will start to pick up on their subtleties in the art of attracting women.

 

Reading books is not enough. No one ever learned how to roller skate by going to a seminar. That's why I not only advocate associating with people who have what you want, but to also get out in the field and experiment. When you first start trying to increase your prowess with women, don't be attached to the outcome. Instead of thinking in terms of success and failure with each approach, think it terms of feedback. Approach each encounter with a woman as a learning experience. This will cure your anxiety approach.

 

Practice your non-verbal communication. Communication is critical in dating. But get this - only 7% of your communication is from the words you use. The rest is from voice tone and body language. Women are much more adept at reading body language than men are. When men say something, women naturally check a man's body language to see if it is congruent to the words they speak. Even if women don't pick up on this consciously, subconsciously they will feel uneasy being around a man whose body language isn't congruent to his word choice.

 

Think of the compliment "you're beautiful." Say it a number of different ways. Try saying it in a nervous, timid way. Then say it in a confident way. Now try saying it in a suspenseful way. Practice saying this and other things to your friends and see if they can guess which way you are saying it. If they can't, you are having trouble in the areas of body language and/or voice tone.

 

These are just some general tips on approving your chances with women. But it's a good place to start. Just by being aware of the things covered in this article, you are already well ahead of the pack of ordinary men on the dating scene.

 

by Kurt Dight