How to Flirt and Approach Women

Flirting is an art. Some of you guys are just blessed with the right wit and talent to do so. For those who are not so blessed, it is time to master this art of flirting. You might not need it now, but in years to come, you would probably regret for missing out with the thrill and fun of flirting with girls. Guys, learn how to flirt and approach women, and you will get the girl(s) of your dream in no time.

 

As you were chilling as the bar, you noticed a gorgeous girl as the corner of the room. She is THE girl. Now is the time to put your art and talent to great use.

 

Follow these simple tips to hook up with the right kind of girl:

 

1. Smile

Put on your million-dollar smile and charm her. Smiling can bring out the confidence in you and you will give the immediate impression that you are approachable. A flirty smile would be one that is wider that the regular smile. How about practicing in a mirror to make your smile look more natural?

 

2. Get some eye contact

Before you walk up to her and say hi, try to make eye contact with her. It is just rude to stare or ogle. Just give her a quick glance, and look away. Women are put off by men who constantly stare 'below'. So avoid doing this at all costs.

 

3. Time to walk up to her

This is the chance for you to introduce yourself to her. As you walk to her, maintain a good posture and this will make you more confident. A courteous approach is sometimes all you need. Women love confident men.

 

4. Start talking

Break the ice with a small chat. It might be pretty tough to start the ball rolling. But, giving a compliment would usually help. However, do take note that it can be pretty rude and inappropriate to give a compliment on certain parts of the body. Find something you can complement on such that it makes you sound sincere. Pay attention to what she has to say. If you show interest, she'll feel 'interesting'.

 

5. Make her laugh

Women love to laugh. So make her happy, and she will find your presence highly entertaining. Try to tell her a good joke. However, avoid sharing dirty jokes. While some girls might like it, some will just brush you off. So, don't take the chance. Just prevent yourself from blurting dirty jokes. At the same time, try to be spontaneous in humoring her. If all you do is tell her an endless list of jokes, she will find that you are just an entertainer. It would not appeal her much.

 

6. Patience, my friend, is a virtue

You have to take things slowly. Some ladies need a lot more time to show interest in you. If you don't get the desired attention from her immediately, don't give up yet. Don't show her the signs of frustration. Keep being yourself and you may never know what might happen next.

 

Flirting is ain't that tough. Just give yourself more time and practice. Older ladies usually enjoy a good flirt, so you might want to start by practicing on these women to further your talent. Have a flirty good time!

 

by Michael Dat