Being successful at dating is not rocket science. In fact, there are some easy tips that can really boost your success, and improve your dating odds. You see, often times men feel the need to impress the woman on a date. This can lead to unnecessary pressure to put on an act, or exaggerate a bit when dating. This can often be picked up by women unless you are an amazing liar. Most men are not amazing liars, and will give signals that can be picked up that they are lying. The goal here is to be as natural as possible on a date, so there will not be any warning signals for women to pick up on.
Be yourself: So, really, if you are interested in having long term success while dating, really the best advice is to just be yourself. Putting on an act to impress someone will only backfire as she eventually finds out you are not who she thought you were. Do not exaggerate your job details, education background, etc.
Show an interest in her: Women like to have a man show an interest in them. So ask about her job, family, hobbies, etc. Find out what she likes to do and include some of her likes in your plans with her. Let her know that you chose it because it makes her happy. This is a terrific way to let her know you have been paying attention, and she will be far more receptive to you.
Be open: If you are guarded about yourself, this can be a warning sign to her that you are hiding something. Not to mention, she may well be less willing to share anything about herself, making it far harder to use tip number two. Simply put, if you are open during discussion, she will be as well.
by Tony Ross
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