So how you can overcome the fear of rejection before you approach women? You can be as good as dating any women as other guys if you can overcome your fear of rejection. This is just a mental block which is denying you from success with women.
To have success with women, you will first need to get rid of this mental block. Do not let it to affect your morale and confidence to approach women. Let me share with you some tips that you can use to overcome the fear in you:
1. Put things in perspective. Approaching women is not a matter of life and death, so why should you fear it? Tell yourself what is the big deal of being rejected by a woman
that you hardly know? You will not get a slap from her anyway, and you will most probably not get to meet her again in the future.
2. Qualify her. Tell yourself that you are the one who qualify her, not the other way round. By thinking in this manner, you are not being intimidated by her, and will most probably come across to her as a very composed and confident man.
3. Be prepared to walk away anytime. I believe that you will not any people to take away your freedom to make decision, and therefore women will have every right to reject you. Be prepared to walk away and look for other women, you deserve better.
Rejection is part and parcel of dating; there is nothing to be afraid of. Anyone who is into the dating game must prepare to face any rejection. Getting rejected does not mean it is the end of the world. You will definitely meet someone who is attracted to you as long as you do not give up and keep trying.
by Crid Lee
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