One of the great ways to overcome your fear of rejection in dating is to talk with confidence when you are approaching women. Women are attracted to men who are confident in themselves. By talking confidently and smoothly, women will find you attractive.
Most men find themselves being afraid of rejection is because they do not have the confidence to speak confidently and smoothly with women. I am pretty sure that if a man is confident with his talking skill, he will not hesitate to approach the most gorgeous woman
in a pub.
There are a few ways that can make you talk more confidently:
1. Widen up your knowledge. When you have a broader knowledge base, you will be able to find different topics to talk about when meeting women.
2. Ask questions. When you are running out of topics to talk about, start asking her questions instead so that you will not have to do all the talking. When she is answering your question, make sure that you pay attention to show respect. At the same time, you can even listen for clues on what seems to be interesting to that her.
3. Be observant. Pay special attention to her and the surroundings so that you can use them as a topic to talk about.
4. Be relaxed and calm. Be comfortable with who you are and start engaging women. When you are comfortable with who you are, you will not feel the pressure to "perform well", and this will make you speak in a more composed and confident manner.
5. Practice, practice and practice. To be able to speak confidently is not a one-night effort. You will need to practice talking and approaching women as often as you can, so as not to get "rusty".
by Crid Lee
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