The trick to dating a woman successfully is to know how to present your best to your woman, and knowing when to ask for the date.
Presenting your best to your woman is an ongoing task. Remember that this is not the same as pretending to be somebody else that you're not. You have to still be yourself, but at the same time, presenting your strengths visibly to your woman. For example, if you're a helpful person by nature, show it. If you're a humorous guy by nature, show it. Do stuff that'll get you more attention and allow her to see you in a more positive light. If you can do this on a consistent basis, it's half the battle won. Remember, it's not just the moment when you ask for the date. All the little moments that happen before the asking count just as much.
So when is the right time to ask for a successful date? To know that, you have to be a part of her life as much as possible. What's happening right now in her life? Did she just have a promotion at work? Did she just have a big fight with a family member? Did her dog just died?
These are all opportunities for you to ask her on a date. For instance, if her dog just died, go over and ask (appear casual even though your heart is beating super fast), "Hey, I heard your dog just died. You want to tell me more about what happened? How about a drink tonight?"
And if she asked if this is a date, just say yes.
However, if she says no to you the first time, don't be discouraged so easily. If you're following the tips in this article, you should still be scoring some points. Try asking again a few more times. Be genuinely interested in her, and you stand a really good chance of dating the woman of your dreams successfully.
Good luck!
by Darren Chow Wk
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