You are crazy about her. She's the most beautiful woman you've ever seen in your life. When you woo her, there are many love rivals vying with you as well. You woo her with fear of losing, fear of failure and the fear of financial loss. These fears may manifest in all aspects of your dating opportunities.
Fear of Losing Her
A guy who is scared of losing the girl that he is wooing has both positive and negative connotations. Many different handsome and successful men are after her. You may be scared of losing her will suddenly feel more motivated to get the girl. But, this motivation may drive a person into irrationality. A point of distinction you have to make is the reason why you like the girl. Is it unconditional love? Or is it because of the reason that many men are after her?
Fear of Failure
When a guy approaches a beautiful woman only to find that dozens of men after her as well, he get intimidated. Especially when the other men after all have much better attributes that him, he sinks into a state of inferiority and worse, depression. To make things worse, if the girl is very much sought after, he may not even dare to express his feelings for the fear of rejection. Ultimately, due to his fear, he gives up the girl.
Fear of Financial Loss
This is for the calculative guy who may manage his love circumstances the way he manages his stocks and bonds. Safety is the best precaution for the calculative guy. He feels that the girl that he likes is not worth pursuing and spends less time to woo her with the fact that there are many different men after her at the same time. My advice will be that you be as generous as possible in any potential relationship as stinginess will bring you nowhere near her.
by Janice Hilton Freeman
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