5 Ways to Ask For Her Phone Number

For some reason or other, most men feel like there needs to be some special way to ask a woman for her phone number. As a dating coach, I get asked all the time by men all sorts of questions about the proper etiquette and rules of asking for a woman's phone number.

 

Here are some typical ones:

 

- How long must you talk to a woman before you can ask for her phone number?

 

- Are there certain places where you should ask a woman for her number?

 

- Are there places you can't (or shouldn't) ask a woman for her phone number?

 

- Can you ask a woman for her phone number when her friends are there?

 

The answers to all these questions are not nearly as important as why men ask them. Men don't ask women for their phone number not because they are concerned that they are committing some breach of dating etiquette, but because they are afraid of getting rejected.

 

The truth is that the answer to all of the above questions is the same: There is no perfect time or place to ask a woman for her phone number. There are, however, great ways to do it. Here are five tips to help you feel comfortable and be most successful when you ask a woman for her phone number:

 

1. Never ask a woman you've just met for her phone number if you have done all of the talking but none of the listening. Why would a woman want to go out with you, when all you've done is talk at her instead of asking her questions and trying to find out about her. Who wants to go out with "the chronic talker?"

 

Conversation is a 50/50 deal. So, never just walk over to a woman, talk at her for two minutes, and then demand a phone number from her. You will likely not be pleased with her response.

 

2. When you are deciding whether to ask a woman for her phone number, it doesn't matter for how long you've been talking to her. All that matters is how well you connected with her during that conversation.

 

When I meet a woman to whom I'm attracted - no matter whether I'm in a video store, the supermarket or a coffee shop - I am always finding out about her during our conversation. Just because a woman is pretty, doesn't mean I want to go out with her. I have to find out about her. In order for me to be interested, I have to find her interesting and intriguing. This may only take a minute or two.

 

If I like the way the conversation is going in those first few minutes, I'll say to her "Look, I've got to run but I'd like to carry this conversation over to another day. Give me your number and I'll give you a call." If you are responding to what each other is saying, and you're both enjoying the conversation, then you should ask her out.

 

3. If a woman is with a group of friends, then the way to ask her for her phone number is to talk to all her friends. Don't just walk over and start talking to the one in whom you're interested. Talk to all of them.

 

If you show her that you are a friendly guy, and you get her friends to like you, then after you leave her friends will be speaking positively about you. You want her friends talking about you. It's like having your own personal fan club.

 

Most guys make the mistake of only talking to the woman in whom he's interested. When you do this, then you get the opposite reaction from her friends after you leave. What will happen is that after you leave, her friends are going to be saying: "Why would you go out with him? He's so rude!" This is why you want to get her friends to like you.

 

What you do after you have entertained all of them and had good conversations with everyone, is you pull the woman you're interested in aside by saying "C'mere one second. I've got to ask you something." After you've pulled her away from her friends, then ask her out and get her phone number. After you leave, she'll run back to her friends feeling really great that you chose her over all her other friends.

 

4. Respect a woman's time. Let's say you spot a woman in a bar who is with her friends. You wait until she goes alone to the bar to make your move, and you end up having a great conversation with her while you're standing at the bar.

 

What I suggest in this situation is that you don't monopolize her time. She is out to have a good time with her friends - acknowledge that. After you have chatted with her for a few minutes, and you have established that the two of you get along well, tell her "I don't want to keep you from your friends. Why don't you give me your number and we'll get together another time."

 

By doing this, you distinguish yourself from every other guy in the bar. Most guys would monopolize her time, thinking that they need to talk to her for some minimum amount of time before they can ask her for her number. Not true - be different by being respectful of her time and she will want to give you her number. This actually segues really well into number 5.

 

5. A woman will not only want to give you her phone number, but will also look forward to your call, if you make her want more of you. This is accomplished with two extremely powerful techniques I call "giving your best two minutes" and "using the power of the walk away." Use these and you will always leave a woman wanting more.

 

Have you ever had a connection with a woman that was great for the first few minutes . . . then you sabotaged the conversation because you started to over think the situation and got nervous? If you meet a woman you're attracted to and are having a great conversation with her - no matter where you are - it is ALWAYS better to excuse yourself while the conversation is good so you leave her wanting more.

 

Think about how you feel when you're talking to someone who is really intriguing and they have to leave. When they walk away from you, you want more (not less) of them. This is what I call the power of walking away. Keep her thinking and wondering about you, and she'll be looking forward to your phone call.

 

You can ask a woman out and ask for her phone number within 30 seconds, two minutes or ten minutes of meeting her. It doesn't matter. It's not about the amount of time you've spent with her . . . it's about how well you listen to her and how great the conversation is going.

 

So the next time you're wondering if you should ask a woman for her phone number, my advice to you is this: Go for it! It's better to ask a woman out and find out whether she's interested, than to waste valuable time over the next few days wondering what could have been.

 

by David Wygant

How Do I Know He Likes Me?

You love him a lot but does he love you as much or does he even like you? These are the thoughts that go through the mind of many women who have a new crush with someone they adore. You have had several dates with him and he does seem to show a feeling of liking towards you but that is by no means a guarantee that he likes you.

 

You are in a quandary and are desperately seeking to find out if he likes you or not. Well, there are many ways of finding out if he likes you or not. Just observe certain things like his mannerisms and before long you will be able to find out for sure if he does like you or not. Below are the guidelines:

 

1. Popcorns & ice-cream

 

Does he remember the things you like and makes it a point to open the door for you? If you have been to a movie does he take the pain to purchase the popcorn and ice-creams that you adore so much? These seem to be trivial things, but they go a long way in proving his liking towards you.

 

Try to study his feelings, judge if they are artificial or whether they seem to come from deep within his heart. Some men just try to act friendly to be in the company of a woman and they can be easily detected if the girl is smart enough.

 

2. Eyes don't lie

 

Sometimes many people, especially those who are well mannered do the things mentioned above more out of sheer courtesy than love. I am not stating that courteous men do not like girls; they do so, but only with certain types of girls. Try to scrutinize his feelings and watch out for his behaviors, especially when you are in eye contact with him.

 

It is very difficult for the eyes to lie and if you try a bit, you shall easily find out whether he likes you or not just by the looks of his eyes. Do they sparkle with interest when you look at him, or do they portray boredom or just curiosity?

 

3. Is he possessive?

 

Is he possessive enough with you, to the extent that he tells you what dress to wear and how to wear your hair? Only men those who love a girl will go to this extent. Look out for the gifts that he showers you with. Are they just normal gifts or do they consist of items that you really like. If it is the latter case, then he surely loves you, for he has taken the pains to know what you like and has taken the time to hunt down those items to gift you with. You should also remember one more thing.

 

There are some people who are very shy and even though they love you a lot they just do not have the courage to tell the same to you. These persons can easily be recognized by their fidgety behavior. In these cases it is up to you to take the initiative and make him feel comfortable in your presence.

 

Finally, would you love to have a man in your life who is fully committed to you, a man who treats you special, gives you comfort and security... and simply asks you how your day was?

 

by Sarah Nichols

Women You'd Rather Not Date

It is important to know what you're looking for in a woman. And typologies and classifications are very useful for the screening process. Being able to quickly notice female typology gives you better chances of knowing if you want to deal further with a woman.

 

Before we learn about those women we should almost avoid like the plague, let's take a look at some methodologies.

 

Women can be described according to many continuums.

 

There's the high drive - low drive (HD - LD) continuum which describes women sexual drive. Pick up artists and seducers tend to be high drive. And since you're reading this article, I'll assume that you're an artists of some level in the making and hence high drive.

 

There's the high self-esteem - low self-esteem (HSE - LSE) continuum which explores the level of a woman's self-esteem. A woman's relationship with her parents - and more specifically with her father - is a key determinant of a woman's altitude on this continuum.

 

I believe there's also a feminine - masculine continuum. Indeed, some women are very comfortable in their feminine energy while other women display some very masculine traits (see below).

 

Enough of the theory. Here are some types of women you should avoid and my favorite tips on how to recognize them.

 

Masculine dominant chicks

 

This is the first type of woman to avoid (unless someone like men). Masculine dominant chicks are very logical and have by definition masculine mannerisms. Those women like to fight for domination, in a very masculine way. They like to take the lead in conversations.

Those "ladies" often try to pick up guys the way a man would pick up a girly girl. You can by just feeling the masculine energy in this kind of women. You feel that they're not girly girl at all. They have a masculine body language; enjoy manly things and straight talk. You simply can't feel the very particular and irrational yin energy, this playful feminist which inexorably attract you towards feminine women. And so you'll recognize them simply by being instantly repulsed by them.

 

LD or Low Drive Women

 

If you like and enjoy much sex, you may want to avoid this type. No need to elaborate further with this type of chick. You simply won't get much action!

 

How can we recognize them? If we check the four types of temperaments in people - another useful typology - choleric, sanguine, phlegmatic and melancholic - we can say that both sanguine and choleric types of girls are very high drive. Melancholic girls tend to be HD and passionate as well, but the difference lies in how they enjoy sex. The least passionate type we find is the phlegmatic type. They are often LD women and don't react much to techniques like ball busting or cocky and funny.

 

If you're looking for a Lasting GF, beware of the freaks and ho's!

 

That's an easy distinction:

 

A good girl comes from love.

 

Ho's or gold diggers respond to material possessions. They're looking for financial gain.

 

Freaks need attention and they love sex. They respond to validation and ball busting as it creates strong emotions in them.

 

If you're looking for a steady girlfriend, go for a good girl.

 

But beware! Good girls enjoy sex, but they like to fall in love with men as their main motive whereas Freaks do not have to be in love with anyone other than themselves and some of them even like to get guys to fall in love with them - and they enjoy the feeling of love, or rather validation, once you get down to the real deal... off they go to the next victim. Freaks come just for male energy and are in desperate need of attention. They react to strong ball busting and cocky and funny. With them, you just have to overdo the attraction game and introduce validation centered frames in the convoy.

 

Good girls are looking for a boyfriend. Freaks just want to have a good time.

 

Ho's just wanted to dip into your potential. And sex may not be part of the deal. So just avoid them.

 

How to recognize them? Well, if you find a gold digger, she'll likely expect you to pay for everything, without offering to split the bill. She will certainly ask questions about what line of work you're in, or what car you drive. If the woman does not show explicit signs, you can still be proactive by introducing money and material possession frames in the conversation.

 

I'll conclude by giving you a specific example on the recognition process.

 

Let's imagine you're picking up a girl and you run some attraction game on her and you notice that she is irresponsive to busting which normally works very well on Freaks. Then quickly switch your hook and give her a Ho signal - for example talking about an expensive restaurant and giving her a hint that you could both go there - if she's still irresponsive give her a Good Girl hook like getting into building commonalities and genuinely getting to know her.

 

Women are so emotional that you can switch rapidly from a hook to another without them noticing how illogical you are being.

 

To sum it up, keep your standards in mind and always lead the interaction.

 

by Leon Casey

Is Christian Online Dating For You?

Christian online dating sites help to find someone special with whom you want to date. These sites offer services for dating and match making. Some of them provide services without charging membership fee. These sites frame their features based on God's words. The free online dating services for Christians help those people who want to search some one who has religious beliefs.

 

Dating disciples is one of the Christian online dating service providing sites which helps you to get an exciting dating experience. You can join as a free trial member or you can become a paying member for full access. This site allows you to use audios and videos also.

 

Christian online dating for professionals is allowed by various sites. Executive Christian dating is one among them which will offer traditional Christian match making service at the same time maintaining the high standards of the professionals. They will offer you a counselor that works until you find a perfect match. The counselor will guide you in finding good relation.

 

The executive Christian dating will also provide telephone interview at convenient schedules. The members of this Christian online dating site should be well educated, well established and professionals. You will be introduced with other members with the photo and profile. This site is very careful in maintaining your private details confidential. Such details will be never posted in world web at any situation. This site has excellent reputation and good name. Since they are providing match making service from the year 1982, their experience in this field will surely benefit you.

 

Steps in online dating:

 

Christian online dating services is provided in step by step process. The first step is to get free consultation with the counselor who has much experience in match making. The second step involves initial interview. Then the Christian match making process begins to start. If you are satisfied with the details of any of the member, then you will be introduced with him\her. If you want to get qualified and educated match for dating, then executive Christian dating is the correct place to find such person.

 

Many Christian Youths are interested in online dating sites and sometimes they may not know which site to select. Before choosing any site, you should ask yourself whether you want to go for a casual date or you want to maintain a long term relationship that will end in marriage. Then select a reliable site even though you are required to pay some membership fee. It is also important to know about the scams in online dating.

 

A good Christian online dating site will have a search and match data base that allows you to seek partners who have similar beliefs and likings. A good Christian dating site will protect your privacy. It will not tell any of your personal information to other members. Again it will allow you to search your partner from number of variables. Online dating sites like Christian café are successful since they have the above mentioned qualities. Christian online dating service providing sites will surely help you to find an honest and reliable dating partner.

 

by Robert Keating

How to Achieve Dating Success with Women

It is very stressful to set a date for the girl you really like. You have to prepare yourself, your dress and find a good place to go. And even if you have prepared everything, you still do not know if you will achieve dating success with women and leave a lasting impression.

 

It is nerve-wracking to think that she might not enjoy the date with you or might not agree to see you again. It is important for any man to achieve dating success with women and get the kind of girl you always wanted. Here are some tips to help you:

 

Good grooming. You do not have to be exceptionally good looking and the sexiest guy around but you should know how to carry yourself. Practice good hygiene, shave, nice haircut and dress well. You have to know how to look at your best, be presentable, appear fresh and irresistible to achieve dating success with women.

 

Calm Down. Try to relax and calm down. It is natural to get nervous and it is appealing for your date to see you get a little bit nervous but try to control your feelings and calm down. Too much nervousness will make you appear clumsy and may turn her off.

 

Do not expect too much. Another way to achieve dating success with women is not to expect too much. Do not put too much pressure on yourself or to your date. Just enjoy the moment, have fun and make things lighter.

 

Find out what she likes and compromise. You do not want to end up in a restaurant where she cannot eat the food or enjoy the place, so it is important to know her likes and compromise with your preferences so that you will both enjoy the date. Achieving dating success with women includes finding the things that you both enjoy and connect with each other.

 

Be a good listener. Do not just concentrate on impressing her and talking about yourself. Remember that you like this girl and you want to know more about her. So listen, and listen well to get to know her better. Show interest and genuine concerns.

 

Treat her well to achieve dating success with women. If you can cook then cook for her and prepare a special menu for her. She will feel special knowing you prepared something special for her and this is also your chance to show her that you have useful skills. Always be a gentleman, they say that chivalry is dead, show her that it is not true. If you have to open doors for her then do it. Treat her like a princess because even in this modern dating world, most women still want to be treated like princesses.

 

by Gerry Restrivera

Valuable Tips for That First Date

Being alone with your significant other is what makes regular dating the most popular type of dating, going out with your date alone, without other people coming along. Most of us like to include dinner and something special afterwards, like a movie or the theatre or such.

 

Romance has different meanings to all people. For instance dinner might be a fine dining restaurant and the two of you will get dressed up. Some others might consider a homemade dinner by candle light as the most romantic happening. This could be the best way to go, in the event that you do not have a lot of money to go out but you would like to do something extra special. The added benefits when you cook a meal for your date can be the camaraderie associated with an intimate dinner. You can spend the evening talking and getting to know each other, when you aren't in the company of others. However if you are not comfortable with an intimate dating experience on the first date, then you should consider dating in a group.

 

Of course there are always problems associated with dating. Incompatibility being one of the biggest when the two of you may just not be suited to each other. Communication is the most important thing when you are choosing a new partner. If you are having problems expressing your feelings, it could take extra effort in making yourself clear. If you can communicate in a clear way and you both understand the others feelings, then your chances are infinitely better. It is important to communicate what you need and expect in your relationship. Unable to communicate is a sure sign that you are not compatible. You cannot force the relationship, if you are incompatible. Sometimes one or the other might not know how to express themselves; though it is a problem, a little bit of understanding by the other, can sometimes overcome this and then the relationship can develop.

 

Being comfortable in each others company is one of the better signs that you are compatible and that you might have something developing. When you are together on the very important date, there are certain ways in which you should behave. Getting to know each other is what it is all about and if the relationship is to last, then you must be yourself and not try to be someone your are not. This is a falsehood that will lead to very sad complications latter.

 

Your appearance on a date is of the utmost importance, later in the relationship you can relax and dress down a little but for now, you must present yourself in your best light. At this point you can also do a little homework and find out a few things about your date. Little things that will make the date go better. For instance is the female in the association a feminist who likes to do things for her self. Or is the male member able to afford that exotic dinner. Don't expect anything beyond the others capabilities.

 

Don't make it an interview, even though it is common for people on a first date to ask a lot of questions, but getting to know someone is different from putting them through an inquisition that might scare them off.

 

by Helen Reid

Intuition - The Hidden Power in Dating

When I was talking to a friend (whom I hadn't seen since school) the other day, I realized that I had omitted one of the elements that can cause an absolute change in your dating lives. She told me her story which I felt the need to share with you.

 

Yolanda was a carefree woman who is single. One day, she was on her way home from her work when she heard a voice which told her, "Take a longer route back home." Yolanda was already bushed from a day's work. However, Yolanda still took the longer route through the garden. When she was walking, she met an ex-colleague whom she didn't meet in nearly a decade. This man is now her husband.

 

Why I want to tell you this story is because I need to tell you that it is possible that we can find love almost everywhere and anytime. Yolanda was very tired from her work but she listened to her voice.

 

Before I go further, I would like to say that attractive people go in tune with their intuition. Ever wondered why the attractive lady picked the same coffee with the particular cinnamon topping as you in that coffee bar this morning? Usually, intuition allows us to choose our ideal love partners. In fact, many couples who found true love actually choose their partners by pure intuition.

 

All of us get gut feelings at some point in our lives. But, we often ignore or dismiss them. For example, a voice asks you to go for a job but you just miss it. Who knows? You might miss the opportunity to meet a gorgeous lady who is an occasional jogger?

 

by Janice Hilton Freeman

Dating Myths Exposed

Most of us were brought up to be polite, well behaved and not to offend others - that's admirable but it can also make you on the losing end of dating encounters with more ruthless beings. It is crucial to work on building your confidence so you don't get taken advantage of by predatorial men and women, and can spot them a mile off in future.

 

People who lack confidence and self esteem often allow themselves to be treated in bad ways because they believe it's all they deserve or they are conditioned as children not to get on the 'bad side' of others or upset them. Well I've got some news...it doesn't have to be you on the losing end every time, and what's more, the less crap you are prepared to put up with, the more dates will flock to your doorstep.

 

Only bad boys/girls have any fun...

 

Why do the bad men and women seem to get more attention? Bad guys/ girls attract because they are a challenge and dangerous, and aren't too serious or straight. No one's suggesting you should start being a nasty person, but it's certainly possible to be too available and too keen to please, trying too hard, responding too quickly. All too often people become a 'super friend' rather than a lusted after partner because they are too keen to please rather than being themselves.

 

Confidence is sexy, but arrogance is not. Ultimately bad boys and girls are found out for the arrogant creatures they are. It's fine to be confident about what you want without having to play those bad boy/girl games, and confidence in who you are makes you more attractive to others (even if you don't feel it sometimes!).

 

You need to spend lots of time together...

 

Absence makes the heart grow stronger is a cliché because it is true. If you're always available for your date, it won't be long before they start taking you for granted - it's human nature. Don't be so reliable!

 

They will be different with me...

 

If you're looking for loyalty in a partner listen carefully to their relationship history. Have they cheated and how do they describe the experience? There's no such thing as an affair meaning nothing and if they've done it with others, statistically they are more likely to do it with you - not a definite, but certainly a possible.

 

You always have to be honest...

 

There's honesty and there's brutality. Some people believe you have to be cruel to be kind. But I'm talking mutual admiration - a supportive partner is supremely important - undermining and criticizing will turn them away even if you think they should know the truth.

 

They're all the same...

 

It's wrong to think men are driven by sex alone and all women want is commitment - yes that applies to a lot of people, but equally everyone is different and you shouldn't be afraid to ask indirect questions (not interrogating...) to find out what your date is looking for. Why waste your time if they are on a different path?

 

I just have to make them see the real me...

 

You can't make them realize that you're 'the one.' Spending all your time 'convincing' your date is a long uphill struggle with no end. We can only be ourselves and hope that the significant other in our life is worthy - and by worthy I mean that they're clever enough to realize that we're the real thing.

 

Men and women will always think differently and you can't make your partner 'be more like you'... if they don't like your basic character as it is, no amount of compromise is going to make a relationship work.

 

The honeymoon feeling should last forever...

 

It's also a myth that the falling in love feeling lasts forever...it is replaced by something deeper if you let it - learn to move on rather than seeking the same temporary emotional high with another partner. People become serial daters often because they are addicted to the first infatuation high and keep seeking it with new partners, rather than letting feelings develop. If your date makes references to dating being in a sweetshop or similar analogies, steer clear unless you want a short term fling. Likewise do you run at the first sign that feelings are cooling or developing into something else? Could you be addicted to dating?

 

People in love shouldn't argue...

 

People will always have issues on which they fundamentally disagree - it's normal - and agreeing to disagree is how long term couples function. You don't have to share exactly the same concerns and interests as your partner, and trying to do so can put unnecessary strain on one or both Everyone argues in a healthy relationship...if you never have conflict, you don't have communication...and it needn't be 'the end'.

 

If you or your partner goes from 0-100 in an argument so it all gets out of hand too often, you may need to consider how to change this so you don't damage an otherwise good relationship. Or maybe you have done this in the past and it ruined things so it's time for a new start in that area?

 

Nobody's perfect in life and you can tolerate flaws in a partner for the sake of the good bits - as they can in you. But remember quirks are one thing - serious issues such as addictions and abusive behavior are another.

 

by Fay Maguire

2 Top Tips for a Good First Date Online

In this article we are going to discuss making sure you have a good first date online (which if you're lucky...will lead to several more in short order!). So read on as we apply our veritable YEARS of combined online dates (both really good ones...and REALLY, really bad ones too..:-) into one short article designed to keep you moving in the right direction with grace and fun for all. Read on..:-)

 

Keep it VERY stupid SIMPLE!

 

Stop planning the perfect first date for that absolutely fantastic looking thumbnail staring back at you from the confines of your computer screen. Do you know how many nightmarishly awkward first dates came about because you OVER PLANNED around someone who looked FAR more appealing (and interesting) in pixels...than they did in real life? Trust me - many..:-) Keep it as basic as possible, coffee is ideal. No muss, no fuss and if you hit it off, there is always date number 2..;-)

 

Hang UP the phone, Honey!

 

Please...whatever you do, do NOT spend oceans of time with the target of your online affections on the phone, before you meet. This is the biggest lesson I have learned from 5 years of hardcore online blind dating....people are MUCH different on the phone, than in real life. There is NOTHING worse than falling in love with someone on the phone....his voice, his laugh, his wonderful pauses...ONLY to find he has nothing to say in person. This has happened to me FAR more than I'd like to admit - and it cuts across both men and women alike. Keep your phone calls fun, interesting and SHORT,...I promise - hitting it off one on one is a much better way to go, and if you DON'T...there isn't a huge helping of heartbreak to swallow!

 

by Megan Zoile

How to Seduce Women?

Seducing women is an art, not a science. And this is good news, because it means you don't have to be a technical genius to be a master of seduction, you just have to grow and learn as you go. Practice makes perfect in this instance and practicing your techniques is an important part of learning how to seduce women.

 

You also need to accept and learn from your failures. Everybody will fail at trying to seduce women, so rather than become dejected you simply figure out what went wrong and improve upon your tactic next time round.

 

You may look at men who seem to be able to get any woman in the world and wonder how on earth they do it. Well it's not really what they are doing, it's who they are. They have mastered the art of portraying an attractive and magnetic personality that happens to attract women. The good news is that you can learn it too.

 

First impressions count whether you like it or not. If you wish to seduce women then you simply must be able to manage your image. This means having a positive glow about you with a little bit of charm. Women can sniff a fake personality from miles away so it is important to be genuine. There is a good chance that if you are a popular person amongst your peers, women will take notice.

 

Your reputation is also important when it comes to seducing women. Women love a man who is thought of highly amongst friends and society in general. That means treating every single person you meet with respect and dignity, not just women.

 

Most men go for absolutely gorgeous women and ignore the ones who they may not consider attractive. If you want to seduce a hot woman, why not try the opposite tactic and just ignore her? Now we are not saying that you should take advantage of unattractive women just to get the attractive ones, however if you are after a particular woman, nothing grabs her attention more than a man who does not seem desperate and who is playing hard to get!

 

And finally, if you really want to seduce a woman and not just strike up a conversation, then you can not simply start talking about the weather or other everyday topic. You should talk about romantic, dreamy things such as traveling, dreams, fate, history and other in depth topic of conversation. This can really get a woman's attention, so insure you do not come across as overly opinionated. By speaking of such things you are portraying an adventurous, intelligent and romantic spirit which is the first step in the art of seduction.

 

by Segun Ling

How to Romance a Man and Set Him Afire With a Romantic Evening

How to romance a man, and set his affection with you on fire, requires a little bit of seduction and some physical contact to set in the mood.

 

Most males are usually all stiff and proper in the outside world; but in truth, they are kids at heart. You need to bring out the affectionate child within them to bring out their romantic nature.

 

Here are some surefire tips on how to romance a man and bring him to your way of thinking.

 

Let's Get Physical

 

Boys will always be boys, and men will always be men. But there's only one thing both have in common - and that is their fierce desire for physical affection. You need to do away with conservatism and bring out your wild side to get started.

 

Touching is the very first step on how to romance a man. Yes, you read it right! Touching, or physical contact, is one way to turn your man on for a romantic evening.

 

Men are primal in nature; they react to direct stimuli from their surrounding and nothing else. Caress their arms, their neck, or their ears. It's a guarantee that you will send shivers into them every time you do it. Imagine what would happen if you do it frequently.

 

Another way to romance a man is to be direct in your approach. Give them a loving kiss from time to time, or even a simple seduction to bring them to your way of thinking.

 

If you really want to go to extremes in romancing your man, then you need to fill their vision of you in a sexy outfit that will literally bring flames into their eyes and a fierce hunger in the pit of their stomach - and I don't mean food.

 

A Little Seduction to Bring Their Body to a Boil

 

How to romance a man through planned seduction works wonders in this scenario. You don't have to tell him on the onset about what you have planned for the evening; but instead, give him a few hints of what "might" possibly happen when he arrives home from work. This will really set his brains on fire and a guarantee that he will be thinking about it the whole day.

 

Take note, another great way to romance a man is to guide his thoughts to what you want him to think. This will give you full control over the scene and influence him to your way of thinking.

 

While he's away from home, prepare a romantic dinner that will really set the mood right. When he arrives home from work, give him a serious kiss, guide him directly to the dining area, and tell him to wait.

 

Put on your sexy dress, with some scents to add to the touch. His eyes will bulge when you come into the dining room all dressed and ready for action.

 

Set the mood right with some wine to help both of you relax. Avoid serious conversation, but focus more on romantic and affectionate ones that will help bring out the proper mood. Whatever happens afterwards will depend on how you seduce your partner, and how creative you can be, to satisfy his wild inner child.

 

These simple tips on how to romance a man may take some effort on your end, and a little planning here and there, for it to be successful. But with a little patience, you can give your man a romantic evening that will surely bring out the best in your relationship.

 

by Michael Lee